Coaching Moms of High School Seniors in the “Season of Letting Go”
Coaching Moms of High School Seniors in the “Season of Letting Go”
SHARE YOUR PAIN WITHOUT SHAME
You are embarrassed by your tears and hold it all in. I offer a place to share in a non-judgemental space…because I’ve been where you are.
HAVE SELF COMPASSION AND MANAGE YOUR FEELINGS
I know you feel out of control, but I’ll teach you ways to hold it together while celebrating your child’s achievements.
REALIZE THAT YOUR EMOTIONS ARE VALID
I get it, it hurts. The thought of your child leaving home is breaking your heart, you will miss them and don’t want to stop being their mother.
You’ve loved raising your child for 18 years. The idea of them no longer being with you after this summer is breaking your heart.
On one hand you’re delighted your child will go to the best college for them. On the other, the clock is ticking for when you drop them at college and you return to open the door to their empty room.
The thought is too painful to bear.
“After 18 years of parenting, there’s a different way for you to manage the grief of letting go, and enjoy the time you have left with your senior before college drop off.”
Your heart is breaking thinking about how much you’ll miss them and you don’t want to stop being their mother
Nobody understands the emotions you are going through and many criticize you for being so selfish at this “happy” time
You’re a successful woman, but feel out of control and it’s embarrassing
You don’t feel safe to speak to friends or family.
Mom, I have great news…it doesn’t have to be this way…it’s OK to mourn the end of motherhood as you’ve known it AND still proudly celebrate your child’s move to a new adventure.
You’ll find a safe space for your grief, where your feelings will be validated and you can share without embarrassment or shame
You’ll gain control over this run-away year so you can anticipate and enjoy milestones
yes, even with tears
You’ll learn about a mother’s
RITE OF PASSAGE….
releasing motherhood as you’ve known it
I was there too… all alone in my grief, dreading the end of motherhood as I knew it.
People teased me for being so emotional: “You worked so hard do all the things to get your child into the college of his choice. This is what you wanted, so what’s the matter with you?”
I worked with a therapist who got me through my first son’s senior year, but I was desperate for a portable “toolkit”, to help myself on the road, not only on her couch.
Then, I had a “parking lot moment”…Keys in hand, I asked myself, “when will I get the tools to do this myself?”
That’s when I found out that COACHING can do that!
Through coaching I learned how to respect my feelings without judgment and to find joy in the proud moments of Senior Year, dropping him at college, and returning to his empty room.
I know you can’t imagine that now, but I’m here to help you!
Hi, I’m Victoria
After an extensive, high-profile career in Washington, DC, I chose to be a stay-at-home-mom and loved every minute!
As my boys grew, I transitioned my purpose from the corporate world to incorporating my passion for mothers and motherhood- coaching mothers for the past 25 years
I’m a Certified Life Coach as well as a Matrescence Coach/Facilitator the ONLY ICF-recognised coaching program focusing on the ground-breaking insight of Matrescence.
Here’s How I Can Help
Private 1:1 coaching
Group Coaching Program
HOW TO GET STARTED
01. Get on my Calendar
Schedule a 45-min complementary call to understand where you are stuck, and know what you can do to find more fulfillment TODAY.
02. Let’s talk
Let’s spend some time together and make a plan. You will be amazed at how much of a shift you can feel in ONE call.
03. Change your life forever.
You are now on the way to enjoying everything you have achieved, feeling more in control of your life and being super proud of yourself.